I have played many games over the course of my career. For the longest time, my gaming pseudonym was Rosaelyn. In fact, I went by Rosa until I started playing WoW. Rosaelyn was always a character that closely resembled me – human, pale, red hair. When I decided to become a Draenei, that did not seem fitting, since she does not resemble me physically near as much. (In fact, that is why I have a wee human Hunter named Rosaelyn now. Just to somewhat keep to the “tradition.” Even though she is not a healer…)
So creating my Draenei Shaman convinced me to change my chosen pseudonym, and I became Effraeti, or more commonly, Effy. 🙂
About three years now I have been answering to that. Even those I game with who know me by my real name still seem to call me Effy more naturally than anything else. I find the name to suit me, even on the occasion where Effy becomes Eff’ing Effy. Effraeti may not be a redhead, but she is still me – positive and friendly until riled, then fierce and unyielding.
Starting to blog brought even more life into Effy, and she went places I never imagined when I first molded her on the WoW creation screen. She developed a life and breath all her own.
Now… I find myself in a mental quandary.
I am in the process of switching mains to my Monk. My Monk, who has a whole separate personality. Still my own, of course, since she is the product of my brain and my ideals, but NOT Effy. She is 100% Ireenia. She is as separate an entity to me as if she drew her own breath and physically stood beside Effy.
So I know there is no way I could make “Ireenia” into “Effraeti” and feel that was right at all. Ireenia is a Monk. Effraeti is a Shaman. Ireenia is a blue dragon adopted by a Draenei and trying to adapt to a world where her race is no longer the protector. Effraeti is a Draenei who got split into two people, died and was reborn, rescued and adopted a baby dragon, and is struggling to balance her family and her guild.
Am I too much into my stories and my roleplaying? ><
To switch my main means to switch my pseudonym. Somehow, this is a major hurdle for me. Switching from Rosa to Effy was tough. Somehow, I think switching from Effy to Ireenia is going to be even harder.
You would think names would be the least of my concerns here, eh?
And seriously, what was I thinking? What is a good nickname for Ireenia? I suppose it would be “Iree,” which would end up sounding like “Eerie.” Hmm. I suppose that works.
Has anyone else struggled with changing mains because it meant changing their pseudonym?
~ Effy
I think I’d call you Nia, it comes easiest to me. On rare occasions I talk to my non-gamer husband about something in-game and he gets such a worried look when I say “she does this, and oh no, the Warlock doesn’t think like that, etc., lol. But really they all have different personalities although most likely an extension of mine.
Hmm, I like Nia.
lol Yah, those non-gamers just don’t understand the personalities we have to deal with on a daily basis. 🙂
~ Effy
“Rini” — pronouned “ree-nee” 🙂
But I’m going to have a hard time thinking of you as someone other than “Effy” — when I see your RL name on battlenet, I think “oh, that’s Effy”, rather than thinking of you as “RL Name”.
Oh, Rini is nice too!
I am going to have a hard time myself… I might possibly maybe refer to myself as Effy in my head sometimes…
~ Effy
I am right there with you. I always use a certain name, ever since I played Diablo 2. I carried it with me to my first big mmo, Lineage 2. But then I made another character, and was known as that. Then another – and she was what I was most known as toward the end of my gaming there, but people still called me by my original pseudonym. Now in WoW, I’ve become known as my shaman. I feel crippled by that. I’ve only played for 2 years, so people call me by her name ALL of the time, no matter what character I play. It makes me feel guilty, like I *should* play that character (has she become the true ‘me’?) – yadda yadda. So I feel your pain 100%. Getting too hung up on a name can absolutely suck the fun out of things or keep you from playing new characters.
As for a comment above, I am that way too. I get into the RP/immersiveness of the game, and even though every character I play ends up being ‘me’, I want to pick mounts, professions, gear, etc. that ‘fits’. So sometimes I limit myself too much or worry that it’s not ‘fitting’ for the character. Another thing that can cripple fun!
I agree that names and gear and mounts and background stories can limit a character (or a player), but they can also make the experience more dynamic and exciting. I am all about the story. That is part of what keeps me playing. (Awesome people are another big part!)
~ Effy
After being Lae for so many years I’ve kept it as my Wow-identity, even though I changed mains from Laeleiweyn to Kinlai. The name Lae still feels like me, and it almost feels like Lae is a character on her own, like all my other characters.
Ehm. xD Well, good luck!
Ah ha! Another who understands my predicament! Ah, well. I will likely remain Effy on the interwebz even as everyone calls me Ireenia in-game.
~ Effy
In Star Wars Galaxies, I was Karin, a dancer, image designer and imperial spy. Karin wasn’t available in WoW, and I wanted something more warrior princess horde-like and less alliance human, so I came up with Shawndra. Shawndra hasn’t been my main for years, and I have almost got to where all my signatures except this are now my real name. I don’t think I could go with being called Delgada, mostly because I am not. Are there any voluptuous undead?
I think you will always be Effy. But I will talk to you as Ireenia if you wish… 🙂 Boy that’s gonna do my head in.
Nono, I can stay Effy to anyone who is more comfortable that way. The big issue is going to be switching to it for raiding.
~ Effy
Great post. I am always curious where people come up with their names. I actually post about WOW and a couple of my characters today as well. Have a happy patch day and beware, Da Tundaking is comin’.
http://fromthefogblog.wordpress.com/2013/03/05/let-your-nerd-flag-fly/
I am very careful about names. You never know when a character will become more important than you thought, either in game or in stories or wherever.
Many of my characters have names looked up specifically. Effraeti is based off a fire demon/djinn called an Ifrit. Some are specific to certain cultural themes – like Ireenia, which is based on a Slavic name. Some are based on mythical characters – Caeridwen is based on the Celtic goddess of rebirth. Some are named for colors – Vaadaree is a word for “blue” in Gujarati. Some are formed from words of various languages – Sifaol literally means “she wolf” in Celtic.
I do like my names. I think they are very important. 🙂
~ Effy
I always had this problem too, so when I server transferred last summer all of my characters (3 at the time) got the part of my name I identify with and have been called for years as part of their name. My druid has always been my main since Vanilla, but had always gone by Cainman. I petitioned a GM and got the name “Cain” as that was the name I originally wanted, and as a result of people naturally shortening names and Grid’s 4 letters always been what people called me. My warrior became Dovahcain. My mage became Novacain. Now thanks to RaF I have one of every class, plus a second hunter and a baby second druid. Every toon except the paladin that is my main AHing toon has Cain in their name someplace.
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